What is adoption?

 

Adoption is the legal procedure by which a child becomes, through court action, part of a family other than that of his or her birth parent.


How does adoption benefit my baby and me?

If you are not ready to be a parent, you may still give your baby the gift of lifelong family by choosing adoption. You have the power to legally plan your child's future by being part of the process of selecting a stable, loving family for your baby.


May I receive financial assistance?

Adoptive parents are often willing to help with some living and medical expenses throughout the birth mother's pregnancy.


What is the difference between open and closed adoption?

Open adoptions are very common and allows the birth parents and adopting parents to stay in touch to whichever degree they are comfortable with. This may look like the adoptive parent picking a family and meeting them ahead of time, receiving updates on the child via email or phone calls, or even meeting in person from time to time. It can be as “open” as you want or need it to be. A closed adoption means that there is absolutely no contact between the adoptive and birthparents once the adoption takes place or even before if the birth mother chooses to remain confidential. The birth mother maychoose to register using Florida's Adoption Union Registry which allows the child to receive identifying information once they reach the age of 18. It is encouraged to pass along cultural and medical history, however, biological parents have the option to protect their identity fully.


What happens after the baby is born?

Under FL law, a mother reserves her right to maintain her parental rights, meaning change her mind regarding placing the baby for adoption, anytime before signing the consent for termination of parental rights paperwork. After the baby is born, birth mothers have 48 hours or until discharge from the hospital before the final paperwork is signed. Signatures will only be taken if the birth mother is confident in her decision. After that period of time, the child is placed immediately in the care of the adoptive parents and is legally bound following the final hearing.


Does the birth father have to consent to the adoption also?

If the birth father is known, he must be notified and given equal rights as the mother. Having all relevant parties participate ensures the placement is safe and legal. This may be done sparely and privately.


Do birthparents have to meet the adoptive parents?

Meeting a birthparent is just one aspect of an open adoption. Although this is not required, many birthparents feel more comfortable placing their children with a family they have met.


What is the process?

All prospective adoptive families must complete a "home study" which is performed by a private social worker. This is an extensive process to include interviews, background screenings, reference letters, etc. which is all carefully reviewed. Although it may feel somewhat invasive and intensive, it is required by law to ensure these precious children are protected by being placed in safe and secure families.


What are the costs?

The cost of adopting for adoptive parents varies depending upon the type of adoption. Fees are based on the cost of the services provided. For example, interstate adoptions may cost more than Florida adoptions due to different requirements and interstate travel.


How long might it take?

Adoptions involving newly pregnant mothers may take just the traditional 9 months or length of pregnancy. It may take less time if the pregnancy is further along. However, time should still be considered for the home study process and preparations.


Contact us today to discuss your options and determine if private adoptions may be the right fit for you.

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